One thing that the pandemic has taught us is that you never know what’s around the corner. Still, there are some things that are inevitable in life. No matter what, you can count on these inevitable things to happen. And if you want to be happier and in some cases more successful then accepting these 13 inevitable things is a must.
1. Change will happen
Change is the only constant in life. From small changes to big life changes, every day, change happens around us.
Some people love change. In fact, some people love change so much they’re always trying to change some aspect of their life. Others don’t like uncertainty and prefer things to remain constant. This can make change scary.
But whether you sit in one camp or the other, the only thing we can do is accept change. Because change is inevitable and resisting it is futile.
So, if you’re going through a change in your life, remember the first step to dealing with it is to accept that change is inevitable and if things don’t change now, chances are they will have to change at some point in the future.
2. Things will come to an end
However long something lasts, another inevitability is that every chapter in life comes to an end. Of course, this doesn’t have to be a bad thing. It could be the beginning of something even better. The problem is, you might only realize this after the fact.
Things coming to an end can be extremely scary because at that moment, we can’t always see what’s coming up next for us. So we try to cling on to the present and resist moving on. But whether it’s the end of a relationship, the end of an era living somewhere, or the end of a business venture, no matter what aspect of your life is coming to an end, the only way to move forwards is to first let go of the past so you can be fully present in creating your future.
3. You’ll have disagreements and even conflict
Another thing that is inevitable is that at some point in life you will have disagreements and these could even lead to conflict. What you need to remember is that disagreements are a normal part of life and they are simply a reminder that we’re all different individuals.
What’s important isn’t not having conflict, but learning how to manage disagreements and conflict in the right way, so that your relationships remain intact.
4. You will fail
All of us want to succeed. From childhood, we’re rewarded for getting things right. We learn to take tests, pass exams and do well in school. We want to go through life always succeeding. But failing is an inevitable part of life because things won’t always go well. But it’s through failure that we learn the most. And the more you fail the more you learn.
If you’re not failing then you’re not pushing yourself, doing anything new, or getting out of your comfort zone. So, get out there and start failing. In fact, many successful people will say fail often and fail fast.
If fear of failure is holding you back from making progress or going for what you want, it might be time to address the issue.
According to Psychology Today, some examples of how you can learn to deal with this fear of failure include, redefining what failure means to you, expecting good outcomes but not being too attached to them, and making a distinction between real and imagined threats.
13 Things That Are Inevitable In Life( That You Must Accept For Happiness & Success)
5. Life will challenge you
Speaking of failure, did you ever have something not go according to plan? Or have everything go wrong at the same time? Um, heck yeah! Life can have a funny way sometimes. And at times it will feel like you’re falling apart at the seams with everything going against you.
When this happens, as hard as it is, take heart- and remember, everything will come to an end, even this.
As that famous quote goes, it does not matter how many times you get knocked down, but how many times you get back up.
6. People will surprise you
Another inevitable aspect of life is that no matter how well you know someone, at some point, everyone will surprise you. For better or worse. It’s inevitable.
This doesn’t mean don’t trust anyone it just means you should keep your eyes, and ears open and never assume you know everything about someone. Instead, keep an open mind, and when someone tells you who they are … listen.
7. You’ll experience fear
Fear is a very powerful emotion. We all know that the purpose of fear is to keep us safe. Unfortunately, fear is also one of the biggest obstacles that hold many of us back from achieving our goals.
From being too scared to speak up in meetings to being afraid of taking a leap and starting a business, to the fear of being who we truly are because of what others might think. Fear exists in many forms and if not overcome, can and will keep you completely stuck.
Because fear is innate, there’s no getting rid of it. The best we can hope for is to learn to live with it and continue to take bold actions even in the face of fear.
8. You’ll make mistakes
Perfectionism is another factor that can hold you back from making progress. But expecting perfection can be debilitating. Because there’s no such thing. However perfect someone might seem, we all make mistakes. From the most minor to the more serious, it’s inevitable that you will make mistakes. What’s important is learning from them.
9. You’ll miss an opportunity
Do you ever look back and think if only… if only I acted sooner, if only I went for it, if only I stuck things out a little longer.
“If only…” is a sign of missed opportunities. At some point, we all miss an opportunity for one reason or another. Maybe we’re too afraid, maybe we’re indecisive and don’t act quick enough, or maybe we just procrastinate and the time passes us. Whatever the reason, there’s nothing worse than knowing you’ve missed out.
How can you stop this from happening, or at least ensure it happens as little as possible? By taking action. By listening to your intuition and sometimes going for things, even if they’re scary, unknown, and outside your comfort zone. Sometimes, even if it’s uncharted territory.
10. Time will pass quicker than you think
Time waits for no man, time marches on, time never stands still. Lots of sentiments to state the same point. Time … well, marches on!
No matter how much time you think you have, it will pass quicker than you expect. And this means that every minute is important, and every minute is precious.
It’s easy to waste time doing things that don’t enrich our lives. Complaining, binge-watching TV, saying we’ll start working towards our goals tomorrow. All the while, time is moving on. Rather than letting time slip away, get clear on what you want from life and spend time every day working towards it. Work on your side hustle, spend time with people you love and who add to your life, read a good book, and get out and meet new people.
11. Getting old will happen
When it comes to fear, there’s one fear that a lot of us have in common and that’s the fear of getting old. But getting old is inevitable.
What this means is that we must make decisions that our older selves will thank us for. This doesn’t mean not taking any risks. But making some decisions that will benefit you long term.
12. Death will come
As well as getting old, death is inevitable. But this just means we should all try and live life s fully as possible. I often ask myself, if I were to die now, what would my eulogy say. how do you want to be remembered? What legacy do you want to leave behind?
13. You’ll regret taking something for granted
Finally, when it comes to things that are inevitable, taking things for granted is something we have all been guilty of at one point or another. Whether it’s taking a relationship for granted or taking for granted how many opportunities you have or even taking your strengths and skills for granted. We all do it.
To this end, make time for gratitude every day. Taking time to think about the things you have to be thankful for will not only keep you grounded, but it will also make you so much happier because once we truly acknowledge how blessed we are, it’s hard not to be happier for it.